What do you think?
So. I have been dating this guy for almost a month. And I havent seen him, because of vacations and such.. for almost four weeks!!! Here is my latest issue. I could use some advice.....
As usual, I have my trust issues... so since he has his cell phone off alot.. doesnt text me.. or call me like he used to... I dont know what to do.
Here is our last texting conversation:
ME: "I haven't talked to you in a while..." (actually a couple of days)
HIM: "Im busy babe cant talk to you every 5 minutes"
ME: "i know. i havent heard from you though. all these guys text me.. but not the one i want to. lol. its all good though."
HIM: "Sorry babe alot on my mind lately"
ME: "Its all good. dont forget about me. lol :). I just want to talk to you sometimes.. ya know... lol"
ME: "if you ever need to talk... Im here. Just wanted to say that. And I will stop being annoying and texting you.. so text or call when you want. :)"
So thats it. I dont know what to think about it.. Its now like.. I dont want to annoy him and make him think i am psyco like always checking up with him.. cus I dont text that much to him.. only a couple of times a day... I dont know.. Is alot on his mind... me and like not wanting to be with me... Its a difficult situation.. its a long distance relationship... and he told me he would call everyday.. he doesnt.
-HELP?!
:]- ME
As usual, I have my trust issues... so since he has his cell phone off alot.. doesnt text me.. or call me like he used to... I dont know what to do.
Here is our last texting conversation:
ME: "I haven't talked to you in a while..." (actually a couple of days)
HIM: "Im busy babe cant talk to you every 5 minutes"
ME: "i know. i havent heard from you though. all these guys text me.. but not the one i want to. lol. its all good though."
HIM: "Sorry babe alot on my mind lately"
ME: "Its all good. dont forget about me. lol :). I just want to talk to you sometimes.. ya know... lol"
ME: "if you ever need to talk... Im here. Just wanted to say that. And I will stop being annoying and texting you.. so text or call when you want. :)"
So thats it. I dont know what to think about it.. Its now like.. I dont want to annoy him and make him think i am psyco like always checking up with him.. cus I dont text that much to him.. only a couple of times a day... I dont know.. Is alot on his mind... me and like not wanting to be with me... Its a difficult situation.. its a long distance relationship... and he told me he would call everyday.. he doesnt.
-HELP?!
:]- ME
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pinkbuttrfli on
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Dont msg or call him for a week or so. Let him come to you..if he wants to be with you then he will make the effort. Right now he could be putting in a lot more effort. You just started dating, it's a good idea to not rush things, but at the same time he should come around and show you he's interested. Just don't fall for any games. Too many of my friends fall for BS. Don't act like you need him around all the time. Act like you don't and he'll want you even more. Good luck! |
